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Don't we just hate that our eyes give everything away? Maybe it's one of those days when something happens, and you decide to sneak one or two drops of tears OR one of those "my roommate is sleeping beside me, let me do some silent crying" nights. Then you wake up in the morning and your eyes are puffy as fuck!!!!. It's like your eyes are screaming " oh look at me, I cried bwahahahahahahahahaha" Now everybody knows and there are so many questions. "Who break your heart?" "Dem thief your money?" " Na carry over?" " Dem thief your phone?" "Person die?" lmaoo  So I'm going to drop a couple of home remedies to reduce after tear puffy eye. • Applying a cold compress This will reduce blood flow to your eyes causing the swelling to go down. You can use an ice pack, wet a towel with some ice water or a frozen spoon. Just place any of these on your eyes for a couple of minutes. • Tea bags The key components in

● What is wrong with not wanting to be friends, hang out or participate in conversations you find uncomfortable? ●Why is a married colleague telling you that they find you attractive supposed to be a joke? ●Why does a colleague feel they can talk dirty to you because you're single? ●Why do you have to be the one to avoid someone because of their actions towards you and not the other way around? ●Why do the people in charge always want to brush it off because of your gender, age and what the other person stands to lose? ●And why the hell am I still asking these questions in 2021!!! I was recently part of a sexual harassment in the workplace survey, and we found that the majority of people that experienced one form of sexual harassment or another did not report the incident through any formal work place channel. This was because they did not  know how to report it, and they didn't know if anything would be done about it. We also linked workplace sexual harassment with workplace p

Breakfast is popularly known to be the most important meal of the day and looks like recently everyone is chopping it. Breakfast which now recently means heartbreak is suddenly on the rise so we need to ask the Important questions. 1.Is it the weather??  2.Time of year when we switch out our partners? 3. Are we kicking some back to the streets and bringing new one's into our sheets?? Now let's talk about actual breakfast that won't make you cry lol. Like it or not breakfast actually helps shape your day. After having breakfast  in the morning you're bursting with energy and enough brain power to tackle your daily activities (I mean unless you hate your job😐). You're already full so you don't eat so much junk during the day (all my fitfam people in the  building) and more importantly you save money because sapa😖. For the people that don't have time to make breakfast in the morning you can have something already prepared the previous night or you can take so

Nobody, absolutely nobody talks about how difficult it is to make jollof rice. It sounds like a joke right?? You copy recipes and watch YouTube videos of people making their jollof rice and you do exactly the same thing but somehow your jollof rice comes out like shit!!! This very phenomenom happened a lot during my undergraduate years so i avoided jollof rice for a very very long time. Rice and stew became my favourite and fried rice, my best friend. I was scrolling through my timeline one day and I saw someone tweet about not knowing how to make jollof rice and you have no idea how relieved that made me feel.  So earlier this year I made this friend let's call her "J". J cooks and bakes so she's a pro💪💪. Two weeks ago we talked about the whole jollof rice thing. Apparently the secret is cooking with low heat. All the ingredients and spices you probably used are great but when using very high heat, the water dries out too fast and you'll keep adding more water